**nurses**

If the people around you are nurse.

If only your girl friend/wife is a nurse.

During her working time cannot answer your call.. Please don’t blame her. If she lost her concentration maybe will give wrong medication or else adding wrong doses. Because she is dealing with LIFE..

If she is too busy with her work until cannot reply your message..Please don’t blame her. She might be giving the patient medical advice or receiving patient who was admitted.

When she is tired, do not quarrel with her. Her brain has been in the hospital the day stretched tightly. Perhaps she even stood a dozen hours of operation.

When she feel stress please don’t be countable because she need to pay attention in her work every day in every detail of data analysis and then the summary. In the meanwhile if she faced the problem during analysis and the only person that she can release the stress is you…

If only your girl friend/wife is a nurse

Please lean your shoulder for her..

When she cry please comfort her gently because she is facing a lot of life to death and experience a lot the horrible tragedy in the hospital..

She is not the type of cool girl and wont cry. Not because she has no feeling at all but because in her work she need to be calm and cool so that her work can run smoothly..

More dignity to the deceased .So she must be calm.

Only when she is facing you and she cry because you are the one that she feel comfortable with and someone to hold on.

When you fall sick and she could not always by your side. Please don’t blame her.. Actually she really care about you! But in the hospital there are more patients waiting for her to look after them because they are putting on their hope in her.. Whenever she has time she will be with you and looks after you:)

If only your girl friend/wife is a nurse

Please point your mind spacious

If she cannot make it for any holiday please dont put on the blame on her..Everyone can holiday but a “LIFE” cannot take any break.it can lost any second.

She just want to make her part as a nurse so that everyone including the sick people can enjoy their holiday too if they get well. Be honest, she also really hope that she can go holiday with you too..Really..:)

You finish work but she need to go to work like wise you work but she off. Please don’t complain about it. In fact, she most wanted to spend her time with you:) She sacrifice her free time to see you although she feel tired but you cant even realize about it.

Even when you work. In order not to disturb you. She secretly looks at you near the corner while you cannot see her Then send a text message or phone call to tell you she loves you. Today you are looking great" Dear ..you’d lost your weight. Must eat properly okay? Please forgive me for not taking care of you”

If only your girl friend/wife is a nurse

Please be maturely understand her.

Please try to understand her. Try to forgive her. Try not to blame her.

She even been scolded by the patients. Been rejected by the visitor. Looking at variety faces whereby it can affect the mood of a day. Please stand on her side and understand her.. Actually she really need to balance herself everyday and it is not easy.

She cannot let her mood affect her work so she need to be patient but just sometimes it is overloading for her and she need to release it out.So the only thing she can do is realeasing in you. Please forgive her. She does because she trust in you and you are the one that can make her return to the normal place/mood.

If only your girl friend/wife is a nurse

Please pamper her a little more

Don’t dislike her rough hand, please sincerely care about her. Actually she is not that well too. Hard work and stress had taken away her blooming skin.

Do not think she is maintaining her blooming period. In fact, she was suffered psychological and physical pressure at work.

Working for long hours and intense feelings of anxiety. So she is the most easier people who can get sick.

Don’t be exclaim that she no long delicate her rosy skin. Please use your heart to love her . Long term doing night shift had made her routine in life difficult especially abnormal in her menstrual cycles.

Whenever she back from night shift, have you look carefully to her face?

Pale lips, face also look pale and especially during her menstrual, don’t you feel bad?

Don’t laugh at her panda eyes. In fact, she feel pain in heart when she looks at herself.

She cant even close her eyes during night shift while doctor just sleep there.

Look at her emaciated look..If you really love her please treat her nicely and appreciate her:) please hold her hand tightly.

Try to learn to understand, to love, to care like what she does to you and sick people:


**copy from Gloryn Anak Goh...Thanks a lot :D